I often wonder how many men and women in the Western World are afflicted with Narcissistic Personality Disorder. And, I wonder how many men, women, and children have suffered to the point of having their lives ruined because, in general our society has failed to recognize or understand this serious social plague.
I wrote “Tears In The Rain” because I stood by and helplessly watched my stepchild abandon her mother at the age of fourteen. She was victimized by a ten year vendetta her father waged against her mother seeking revenge after their divorce. In retrospect it is crystal clear to me how he manipulated his own daughter to terminate her relationship with her mother and become extremely vitriolic and eventually remove herself completely from her mother’s life. If I knew then what I know now I could have stopped it. I failed, but I hope this book will help others succeed. I am convinced in many cases Parental Alienation can be prevented if it is recognized early enough by trained professionals. Read More
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This blog is so important and informative!
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Awareness is always a good thing. I hope school psychologists delve into this so that more cases can come to light soon enough to help struggling children. Terrible to be a child pitted against your parent. Shameful, actually.
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PAS combined with manipulative and sick lawyers and advocates who are only interested in money!…..not the children’s best interests.
I fought for five years to keep my children in the country and not relocate with their sociopathic mother and her dope smoking third husband.
The legal system failed me and my children.
In fear of losing the case, the Judge was conveniently and unethically ‘swapped’ by her well-connected advocate and friends of the Judge president, for a feminist leftist female afrikaans speaking heartless judge who never rules against mothers.
The children now suffer – living in a small incestuous town in a far away third world african country, with limited access to their loving and devoted Father, grandparents, godparents, friends, cousins, uncles and aunts. Its’ a travesty what people do in the name of SELF-INTEREST and Money.
When God’s laws become Man’s laws, we stand a chance, until then narcissistic sociopaths remain at large, undetected and continue to wreak havoc in peoples lives (most tragically those of young innocent children – with NO voice).
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Strong punishments are needed against alienators. Long community service orders, giving an opportunity for the alienator / child abuser to reflect upon their crimes.
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Len myers could you contact me please kind regards ron
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Ron, Believe it or not I just came across your message. Can I stil be of any help?
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Thank you for writing this blog, that is so kind of you to love your wife enough that this affected you to see her abused and you didn’t leave and stood by her while her world fell apart. I am suffering through and it makes you feel more alone than anything can when your support system suddenly goes away, giving up on an endless battle that will likely never resolve. God bless you.
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I am going through this right now. I haven’t seen my 12 year old daughter in 2 years and haven’t had parenting time in 5 years with her. And I am the mom. I know you are thinking what did I do wrong? I used to be guilty of thinking if you were a mother without her children there must be something wrong with you. Until it happened to me. My ex husband is an extreme narcissist and has many connections. I spent every last dollar and tear fighting him. He went against all the recommendations of the court and got away with it. He has convinced my daughter I am this horrible person. There has never been a CPS case. For anyone going through this, I understand more than you know. My prayers are with you. Me must continue to fight and never give up .
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Hi everyone I am very depress right now. I never had depression in my life but I feel I can’t going on more in this situation. I have been alienated from my adult 2 children 4 years ago. I divorce in 2007 but this narcissist would not let me be. I tried to put restraining orders, but they don’t believe me. I even went to court and told the judge that this guy won’t stop telling lies to me children and the judge said, we have freedom of speech in this country. Does not matter to the law that, that right hurt my rights as a mother. I have not seeing my children in 4 years, my daughter that I was always very closed married her and of course not one can face the father and I was not invited. Then she had a baby boy and no one called me. I don’t see an end to this pain, I tried every legal way to contact them and nothing. This is psychological abused. I have not contact with this guy for years, I rather died. I think that trigger his revenge. I am 61 and I live alone, I can’t trust any guy anymore. Please tell me there’s a way out of this situation. I am desperate and very depress.
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I’m in the same boat Ginger. I cry every night and the stress and depression is overwhelming at times. I keep praying and I’ll pray for you too❤️
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